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Referral to 2 week Gynae pathway

JC14
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I really don't know how to start this or whether I just start this because it's probably nothing.

I went to the GP yesterday who found vaginal and cervical cysts, I have today just received my hospital appointment which is for next week. 

It's all happening quickly and I'm very grateful for that.

I just don't know how I feel about it. My mind is one minute racing to the worse case scenario then flipping too 'ah it's probably nothing'. I've spoken to my partner and my mum, I can see the worry on their faces, I don't want to put them through unnecessary worry, equally I know I need their support. I have 2 wonderful boys aged 23 & 20 who both live at home, I'm torn between being open with them or keeping what's happening to myself until I know more. I don't want to upset them for no reason, equally I don't want them blindsided if anything is wrong.

Sorry if this is the wrong place to air this and I'm so aware that there are so many people going through treatment and much harder things in their lives. I just feel a little lost right now 

  • Hello JC14, and welcome to our forum,
    I’m sorry to hear about your situation.
    It’s easy to appreciate how overwhelming it must be to have your mind racing between different possibilities.
    It’s great that you’re being open with your partner and mum, and I’m sure they want to be there for you, even if it feels like you're trying to protect them from worry. It’s a tough balance, but it sounds like you're doing your best to consider everyone’s feelings while also looking after yourself.
    As for your boys, it’s a personal decision whether to share what’s going on with them now or wait until you have more information. Trusting your instincts is important, but I’m sure they would want to support you through this, no matter the outcome.
    This is a safe space to share your feelings, and you’re definitely not alone in what you’re going through. Many people here have been through similar uncertainties, and I hope you’ll find support from others who understand.
    Last but not least, please remember we’re here for you, JC14 if you ever need a chat.
    All the best,
    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator
  • Offline in reply to Moderator Renata

    Hi

    i to am on that pathway, I’ve had scans and am awaiting next appointment. Personally I have refrained from telling my adult children. If not good news there will be time enough. All the best

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