Liver & kidney

I am in my 50s going through menopause. I've been experiencing chronic fatigue and putting it down to menopause. Went to GP. Have had blood tests, xray, ultrasound and MRI scan. Going in to see GP next week for discussion about results. I haven't been able to focus on work, I've not told my son as I don't want him to worry and my sister is already getting upset so I am anxious not to worry her more.

I have been meditating and buddhist chanting, going for walks and generally keeping it in the day. However, today it has been playing in my mind. I reached out to a few friends and feel a bit distant from 'keeping it positive' and 'not to worry until I get the results'. I live on my own and I don't think that is helping.

I know worrying doesn't help anything but isn't it natural to feel anxious? 

Symptoms atm are chronic fatigue, feeling bit dizzy, no appetite, lower back pain.

Has anyone got any tips on how to manage the anxiety around waiting for results??

  • Hi Louabelle and welcome to the forum,
    I’m sorry to hear about what you’re going through. It’s completely natural to feel anxious while you’re waiting for results, especially with so much uncertainty. You’re doing well by meditating, chanting, and getting outside – these small steps can help keep you grounded.
    There are many members here who will understand exactly how you’re feeling, and I hope some will be able to offer support soon. In the meantime, if you’d like to talk to someone with a medical background, feel free to reach out to our team of nurses. They’re available at 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday, from 9am to 5pm.
    Wishing you strength and sending positive thoughts your way,
    Renata,
    Cancer Chat Moderator
  • Thanks for the reply. I haven't been able to work this week. Today I wanted to let the feelings in and have ended up frozen and in tears. I also feel like a drama queen and its hard for me to acknowledge this is all perfectly normal to feel like this. I am so hard on myself.

    My work offer health support so I've signed up for some counseling.