Finding it hard to accept good news

I have had 3 moles removed in the past, one mole I had 3 surgeries on to remove it all, I’m quite high risk for skin cancer. But recently I’ve been concerned about a tiny 2mm spot on my chin. Usually, I don’t notice it as it’s flesh coloured and blends in with my skin albeit slightly raised. I’m ashamed to admit that it’s been there for 6 years - I just forget about it as it doesn’t really bother me. I only know it’s been there so long as I mentioned it to my GP in 2019 who said it appears to be a wart.

It’s now started to become inflamed, red and a little crusty at times so I went to the GP today who kept saying if it changes or doesn’t heal come back, but ultimately it’s just a spot. He confirmed it’s not a wart after all. I tried to explain it’s been there for 6 years and it HAS changed. He showed me photos of the different types of skin cancers on Google, and said mine doesn’t look like that, which I know it doesn’t but I also know, as a nurse, that all skin cancers can appear slightly different. 

I don’t know if I’m being overly anxious and just finding it hard to accept that everything’s ok - I don’t really know where to go from here. I feel a bit dismissed and stupid for working myself up so much. It’s so hard to tell if it’s worth going private to see a specialist to get their view, as I’m just concerned about the length of time it’s been there alongside it becoming inflamed. 

  • Welcome to the forum, oscar2233.

    It sounds like you’ve been through quite a lot with your health, and it’s understandable to feel uncertain about this spot on your chin, especially given your history. It can be difficult when you feel your concerns aren’t fully addressed, and it’s perfectly valid to want reassurance or even a second opinion.

    If you'd like to talk things through or need some extra support, our team of nurses are here to help. You can reach them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday, from 9am to 5pm.

    Last but not least, I hope you find some comfort in hearing how others have managed similar concerns.

    Fingers crossed you’ll find the answers you need soon, oscar2233.

    Best wishes,
    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator