Hello, my dad has terminal cancer and has not had treatment due to poor “short months” prognosis. He was put under the care of hospice where until recently he received a call every 2 weeks and has basically been left to deteriorate at home. We’ve had to call the district nurses out for bed sores and pain relief. Still we ask when he can go into the hospice. It feels like they want him to just die at home which is not his or my mother’s wishes. My mum who is 75 is at breaking point caring for him on her own at home. No at home assistance has been offered. Last week he was blue lit to hospital with sepsis where he is currently. He doesn’t have mobility now and is very very weak. We don’t know where he will go when they release him. How do you get into a hospice as it’s not safe for him or my mum for him to be at home & the hospice are still resisting him going in. We will pay for it but just need some help - he has always said please don’t put me in a care home so is there something like a cancer hospice that you can pay for? It feels very unfair and inhumane at the moment.