My elderly mother in law yesterday phoned my other half to let him know she found a lump in her breast and her GP suspects cancer. Problem is she found it a long time ago and has only gone to the doc recently as it’s causing her acute pain.
I’ve been trying to find out online if pain is a normal symptom of BC, and at what stage it might be if a lump is at the stage that it’s causing pain. My OH won’t ask questions or go and see her. I suspect it’s fear/denial and I won’t push him. I’m trying to find answers to my questions behind the scenes so as not to upset anyone. I’d like to know so that I can be mentally prepared to support my OH and his family, and my way of coping is to fact-find. Does anyone have suggestions for sources of information, or have any experience of breast cancer or caring for someone with breast cancer where the symptoms seem similar if not the same? I’m hoping that the hive mind might come to my aid here.
Many thanks in advance for any advice or signposting. If you’re on here too I imagine cancer is affecting you or a loved one so sending my best wishes to you and yours.
