Mother in law with suspected breast cancer. Is pain from a lump a normal symptom of breast cancer?

My elderly mother in law yesterday phoned my other half to let him know she found a lump in her breast and her GP suspects cancer. Problem is she found it a long time ago and has only gone to the doc recently as it’s causing her acute pain.

I’ve been trying to find out online if pain is a normal symptom of BC, and at what stage it might be if a lump is at the stage that it’s causing pain. My OH won’t ask questions or go and see her. I suspect it’s fear/denial and I won’t push him. I’m trying to find answers to my questions behind the scenes so as not to upset anyone. I’d like to know so that I can be mentally prepared to support my OH and his family, and my way of coping is to fact-find. Does anyone have suggestions for sources of information, or have any experience of breast cancer or caring for someone with breast cancer where the symptoms seem similar if not the same? I’m hoping that the hive mind might come to my aid here.

Many thanks in advance for any advice or signposting. If you’re on here too I imagine cancer is affecting you or a loved one so sending my best wishes to you and yours.

  • Hello Ballyblighter

    Yes, judging by my own experience it can.

    At the age of almost 81 I felt pain in the upper part of my left breast but thought it was simply my fibromyalgia and costochondritis (inflammation of the rib cage which I had experienced fifty years before). I wanted this diagnosis confirmed so I contacted my GP. He examined me and thought it could be angina so I was prescribed a betablocker and daily aspirin. As a precaution I was told to have a chest x-ray which confirmed the presence of a lesion at the top of the right lung. I was then given a ct scan which showed the lesion was benign but that there was an abnormality in the left breast. This scan was then sent to the breast team and as a result cancer was found in the left breast and the lymphnodes.

    I do not know how long the cancer had been there because I have suffered all over body pain for at least 20 years but i suspect it was brewing for quite a long time, possibly for at least a year. I had lost half a stone in weight the year before the cancer confirmation but this was attributed to a change of diet by my GP. I had been urged to reduce my cholesterol by eating oily fish and cutting down on my consumption of dairy products (being a vegetarian). The presence of cancer was a complete surprise because I was under the impression that breast cancer is painless! It certainly is not in some cases.

    I am now recovering well after a lumpectomy,axillary clearance, radiotherapy and a hormoneblocking tablet which I shall take for 7 years.

    Best wishes to you and your other half. Please be assured that your mother-in-law will receive the best possible treatment.