Hi Beaumont44, 

I just wanted to say we are thinking of you during this stressful time. I guess the MDT meeting was today and I hope that you get an appointment soon to find out exactly what is going on. It's completely normal to be scared when dealing with all this uncertainty at the moment and after having been through all these tests. 

Let us know what you find out - you are not alone though and many members of our community have been through this before and will hopefully come and say hello soon and share their stories with you. While you are waiting, as there is nothing harder than waiting for a diagnosis, I thought I would share with you our helpful tips to help you cope while waiting for news. 

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi I got diagnosed with rectal cancer on 14th of August, I have oncologist meeting on weds this week to find out the treatment plan of chemo then surgery as I understand so far , im scared but positive , the doctor sounded positive its not spread anywhere , I keep reading of people with stoma and its something I know nothing about and scares me , thanks for listening. 

Hello how are you? My daughter had the port put in today.  Chemo starts Monday feeling very anxious about it, concerned how she is going to feel with the side effects xx

Hi I'm really good today my first cycle finished this morn , I feel fine and I'm going to enjoy my wkend and put next cycle to the back of my mind for now , know its a long way to go ! There's that many chemo types I think but they gave me anti sickness tab anti diarohea tabs etc and they did say your not supposed to feel overly poorly ! I don't know if I will feel worse as I go into cycle two ..no idea ..she will get numbers to ring if anything not right so fingers crossed she's fine xx

My daughter’s chemo has been delayed by a week as they are waiting for her results from her enzymes , not quite sure what this means.  I just hope the delay affects her recovery from cancer x

Hi I remember when I went to see consultant before I started and they said its to check something was right to start chemo but I never looked into it ..and obvs need to have bloods done before each cycle so no I'm not sure either , bit of a *** waiting again but they know what they are on with , she's in the best hands lots of love xx

Morning how are you both? Will your daughters treatment start Monday coming now ? I see consultant today assume just to see how I am for next cycle which starts on Fri xx

Morning, her treatment delayed will start next Wednesday.  Had to wait for her blood test to come back check enzymes as it is such a strong chemo.  Results all good.  Hope your appointment goes well, let me know how you get on xx

Morning results good will start chemo next Wednesday, hope your appointment goes well.  Let me know how it goes xx

Hi my appt went well was only there half hr , consultant was happy with me and how chemo has gone , I don't have to go bk to Sheffield now as he said he will just ring me before each cycle so I can go to medical centre near me now so that's easier , I had bloods done and chemo cycle 2 starts fri morn xx

That’s good news.  Onwards and upwards xx

Morning hope you are all ok, I had my second chemo on Friday I feel ok just sore hands again but nothing I cant cope with , i doubt I will ever get used to tablet time but got to be done ! How are you and your daughter ? Not long until your daughter starts chemo and her road to recovery xx

Morning hope you are all ok, I had my second chemo on Friday I feel ok just sore hands again but nothing I cant cope with , i doubt I will ever get used to tablet time but got to be done ! How are you and your daughter ? Not long until your daughter starts chemo and her road to recovery xx

Morning so glad to hear that you are coping with the treatment.  Yes she starts Wednesday.  Bless her she has been in some pain with the Timor.  I just hope she gets some relief soon.  She has an appointment this morning with her oncologist xx

Is the Timor like a picc line to her chest? I've not heard of that , bless her she shouldn't be in pain maybe as time goes on it will ease xx

Yes she has a port fitted where the chemo will go into.  I do hope once she starts chemo it shrinks the tumour which will make it less painful xx

My bowel movements are back to normal so I assume that's the chemo working to reduce the tumour , well I hope it is , is it the cancer that's causing pain? Xx

I think it is the cancer causing this xx

Morning I will be thinking about you both today , hope all goes well, lots of love xx

Thank you my daughter has gone to the hospital I have my granddaughter for the day/night x

Hi been thinking about you all, hope you're daughter is ok after yesterday, and you too xx

Hi yes first round done she had some symptoms fairly quickly.  I am exhausted had my granddaughter all day yesterday and over night then work today.  Hopefully things will get easier over time xx

At least she's on the road to recovery now , it's so hard all round for everyone, but yes it can only get easier ..take care xx