Scared I’ve got cancer

I’m probably being silly but I’ve found a mole which is brown with darker patches and kind of feathers out on the edges. I went to my amazing GPs who took some magnified picture to a dermatologist who sent back a report that says it was probable melanoma and I would be referred 2ww, after not hearing anything back after just short of 2 weeks I decided to book a private dermatologist appointment (I’m very fortunate I have private health care through work), I’ve now seen the second dermatologist and she want to remove it and explained she would take out some extra skin around the mole, but did explain it was unlikely to be cancer but I can’t get the 1st dermatologist “probable melanoma” out of my head.

I did the worst thing possible after I left the appointment and googled it and I’ve convinced myself I have cancer.

Is it normal if a dermatologist says it’s unlikely to be cancer that they would want to cut it out anyway?

  • Hi Stiglet, 

    You're absolutely right when you say that the worst possible thing to do was to google it and we all do it but it will invariably point to the worst case scenario and make you fear the worst so try and ignore anything you read on Google but focus instead on what the dermatologist has told you. This second dermatologist has actually seen you and examined your mole and doesn't seem too concerned but it's best to remove it and analyse it so that they can tell you for certain what it is. Try not to be too anxious though and have faith in your dermatologist's hunch and I am keeping everything crossed that you get confirmation that this is nothing concerning. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator