Had breast biopsy today - have been told it's most likely cancer

Found a breast lump last week, which felt quite large. GP confirmed and I was referred to the breast clinic. First appointment was 3 weeks from initial GP appointment but i rang and got lucky and had the appointment today. It was a whirlwind of tests: mammogram,  ultrasound and biopsies. It's a hard mobile lump of 2.5 cm (initially thought to be 5cm) but no lymph node swelling felt.

Noone can say until the biopsy result are in but i was told it is likely to be cancer. Subsequent conversations were all positive regarding treatment and prognosis and I  feel fortunate that all these were in the same day and so quick.

Then i got the next appointment sent to me not long after getting home, which wasn't expected and I've  read up a bit, which is terrifying.

I go from dealing with it to panicking, and feeling like I'm going slightly mad with worry.  I know different parts of the country have different pathways. Interested to hear of other experiences and any advice on what to do or how to cope would be greatly appreciated. 

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  • Hi, 

    It sounds like you have been super speedy in getting seen and tested. I know this is a worrying time for you, and coming on here to chat will be a great way to get support from others who understand what you’re going through. 

    Waiting for results is awful! Your mind goes through a million and one different thoughts- from feeling positive to the complete opposite, but the best thing is to just try and stay in the moment and deal with each thing as you come to it. Keep busy, keep distracted and really try to stay off google.

    Sending you lots of love and positive wishes for your appointment xx 

  • I’m literally sat here with a painful breast and arm after having a lump, indentation near nipple and nipple changed direction (facing arm not forwards). Went to gp last Wednesday, been to the breast clinic tonight. Was examined and sent for mammogram and ultrasound. Lady doing mammogram said I’d only had one 6 months ago and They only usually do them every 12 months so I explained to her my symptoms and she went to ask someone for advice. She then came back and said they will do the ultrasound first, and if you need a mammogram, then I will do it.

    Ultrasound, she took lots of pics and measurements on the screen then I went back for two mammograms and one breast. Then had to have two more mammograms done, then back to the ultrasound people who did biopsies and put titanium markers in as a precaution in case they need to do surgery. Was extremely worried by this point as in the past I usually have cysts (Which were drained when I went in January). They then sent me back to mammogram and had two more. Then went to see the specialist and although we have to wait two weeks for the results, he said he wants me to have an MRI. He emphasised that my breast tissue has changed a lot in six months and it is very concerning. He said you know what I mean don’t you? And I said yes but now I’m home after telling my partner and I’m doubting myself!! I was given a leaflet by the nurse that was with him and I thought it was explaining about the biopsy, but it’s a breast care nursing service leaflet.  And beginning to think I’ve made it up? Anaesthetic off quite quickly and I am so sore. Had all over the place…

  • Heyy maybe you’ll get good news on Friday

  • I likes control but i like to understand more. Unfortunately everything I've been told is riddled with contradictions. 

    I'll be at xxxxx for radiotherapy.

  • Expect worst and hope for the best is my motto but the again I'm an Evertonian

  • Evertonian - that made me smile x

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    Same hospital as me

  • It usually does. I get pity too! 

  • I am glad I found this thread how are you all coping? I honestly had no idea that these lumps can just appear over night but from reading here it’s very common and shocking. 

  • Hi Frankiemo, 

    I just wanted to wish you the best of luck for Friday. I am keeping everything crossed for you and wanted you to know we are here for you. Waiting for results is a really anxious time and as the mental health team as been reaching out to you, don't hesitate to let them know how you are feeling - they are there to help so if you feel down or upset about anything, make sure you talk to them about it. 

    You can get in touch with Samaritans about anything that's troubling you at any time of the day or night and you can call them for free on 11612 and I thought I would also mention the charity Mind if you need additional support or information during this time of uncertainty or after you get your results. 

    I am pleased to see you have connected with other forum members here who are going through something similar and you can be there for one another and understand what you are going through at the moment. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hi Frankiemo, 

    I just wanted to wish you the best of luck for Friday. I am keeping everything crossed for you and wanted you to know we are here for you. Waiting for results is a really anxious time and as the mental health team as been reaching out to you, don't hesitate to let them know how you are feeling - they are there to help so if you feel down or upset about anything, make sure you talk to them about it. 

    You can get in touch with Samaritans about anything that's troubling you at any time of the day or night and you can call them for free on 11612 and I thought I would also mention the charity Mind if you need additional support or information during this time of uncertainty or after you get your results. 

    I am pleased to see you have connected with other forum members here who are going through something similar and you can be there for one another and understand what you are going through at the moment. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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