Hello fairydust75

I'm sorry to hear that you find yourself thrust onto the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with waiting for a referral appointment. We know that for many people this period of uncertainty and waiting can be incredibly difficult and from your post, it's understandable that you're struggling with heightened anxiety about things at the moment. 

For many people, it can help to talk to someone about their concerns and how they're feeling and I wonder if you might find it useful to talk things through with one of our nurses ahead of your appointment. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information, and support they can. If you'd like to talk with them they're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040 (excluding bank holidays). 

As you've said yourself in your post, these symptoms may not be caused by cancer. Whilst it's not always easy to do, worrying won't change the outcome but it will leave you feeling worse in the meantime, so try to keep a positive mindset If you can. You may find it helpful to read the post by Moderator Sarah about how to cope with waiting for news. 

Keep in touch Fairydust75 and let us know how you get on. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator