How and when can I support my loved one with cervical cancer?

I am looking for some practical advice from anybody that can help. My sister-in-law was diagnosed with cervical cancer last week. She is undergoing tests all this week to find out what stage the cancer is. She lives abroad and I do not know how and when I will be needed to help, but want to be ready and able. Can anybody advise me of when they needed help if this is something that has happened to you, and also what is best to do to support other than the obvious of cooking and cleaning and being there when I am asked to be? Can I put together a care package of any description and if you are looking after somebody with cervical cancer how would you want to be supported? Thank you 

  • Hello Hopelijk

    I'm sorry to hear that your sister-in-law has recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer. It's naturally a worrying time for you and I'm sure she will appreciate any support that you're able to give. 

    Practical support in terms of cooking and cleaning will I'm sure be helpful but it's probably best to talk with your sister-in-law about how best she would like you to support her through her treatment. Once she knows more information about her diagnosis and what treatment plan the doctors are recommending, the two of you can decide when it would be best for you to travel and how you can help. 

    Hopefully, some of our members who have been through treatment for cervical cancer will post to share their experiences with you. In the meantime, we have some information about cervical cancer that you may find helpful to read through. 

    If you'd like to talk anything through with one of our nurses you're welcome to call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm. 

    I hope that your sister-in-law has news soon and send my best wishes for her treatment. 

    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator