Partner awaiting diagnosis but looking like oesophageal cancer

So its really new and a full diagnosis hasnt been made yet but from what we have been told already and symptoms over a long time ....it looks likely to be cancer.

Just waiting to find out if it has spread

Im gutted 

  • I'm so sorry to hear your partner may have cancer Rhubarbdragon.

    No doubt you're both contending with a lot of thoughts and feelings at the moment, but the Cancer Chat community are here for you and I'm sure you will receive some support from our members soon.

    If either of you would like to discuss what's happening with one of our cancer nurses, you can do so on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They're very insightful and will do all they can to support you and answer any other questions you may have at this time.

    Do keep posting if you find it helps Rhubarbdragon and remember, you are not alone.

    Best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Thank you Steph

    It is all new and yes very much up and down

  • I am waiting for my father results. It is looking like the same cancer :(. May I ask what was your partner symptons.

    Did you try any medicine that alleviated coughs and general fatigue. 

  • Hello Lilly -me

    Thank you for sharing 

    It crept up silently just got more. And more  fatigued

     And then symptoms of heart burn that was dismissed as GERD.

    No cough 

    Difficulty swallowing which got worse and worse....

    Rest is best for fatigue .

    If fathers swallow is affected protein milkshakes are a good way of getting some calories etc inb

    Blending food to a smooth consistency ....and extra liquid like gravy cream custard etc 

    The important thing is your father has had tests so you can find out for definite what is going on for him. 

    ask for information and dont be afraid to ask again if you miss something.....or dont understand lots to wrap your head around 

    And speak to Macmillian team they are brilliant especially financial support team...

    I hope this helps a little

    You are not alone

    Hope your father gets his results soon RD x