A few months ago I started having bladder weakness to the degree I saw my gp who said it was overactive bladder and gave me meds. I then developed an ache in my lower back when I had a nasty cold a few weeks back but then just above my pubic bone I noticed felt hard. I went to the doctor yesterday and he could feel some sort of mass. I’ve been referred for an urgent scan, he said if it’s not my womb or bladder they’ll then investigate bowel( I did just do an at home bowel screening which came back fine). I’m terrified. I was sick as a dog last night because I got myself so worked up. I’m 54, going through menopause .