Hi Lillybelle,

A very warm welcome to our forum.

I am sorry that you find yourself in this unenviable situation and even sorrier to hear about your mum. Unfortunately, I cannot tell you that this will be ok, but I cannot tell you that it won't. As really-scared has already said there's a strong chance that this could still be ok. Not all lumps are cancerous. Many turn out to be benign cysts, fibroadenomas or due to hormonal changes.

This is always a worrying time, especially when you have some medical knowledge. You should get your breast clinic appointment through within 2 weeks from the date of referral. The 3 most common tests for breast cancer are mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy. The mammo and US will identify the lump and the biopsy will confirm whether it is benign or cancerous. All three tests are usually carried out on the same day and there is then another anxious wait of 1-2weeksto get the result of the biopsy. We nearly always expect the worst outcome at this stage, but fortunately, this seldom turns out to be the case.  You may find that your emotions are all over the place at present and may resort to crying a lot. Don't worry about this as shedding those tears is a great stress reliever. 

Irrespective of the outcome, you will feel better once you know what you are dealing with. I was in the same position as you 14 years ago. Since then I have had a second primary in the same breast. Despite this I still lead a busy and fulfilling life and no doubt, you will too.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you're getting on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx