Worried about lymphoma

HI, I have joined this chat as I am really worried I may have lymohoma. I'm a 42 year old female and have been suffering with night sweats and itchy skin for a while but put this down to menopause as I had a full hysterectomy 4 years ago. A few weeks ago I noticed a small lump in my neck but didn't think much of it but also noticed I felt more tired than usual and my husband kept telling Me to go amd get checked at the doctors. I went to my gp nearly 2 weeks ago who said it looked like an enlarged lymoh node and sent me for a full blood count and suggested if they came back clear he would refer for an ultra sound . My bloods came back clear but in the time I was waiting I started to feel really unwell and my stomach has swollen like I'm pregnant and have developed a dry cough. On Friday my sister took me to a and e as my stomach was so swollen. I saw a doctor who said she could feel 2 enlarged lymph nodes in my neck she's referred me straight over to same day emergency unit. I was seen by a doctor who asked me questions he also examined my neck and told me he could feel 2 lymph nodes he then asked to check under my arms and found 2 larger lymph nodes he straight away said I needed an urgent ct scan within 2 weeks which I have next week. I'm just worried about what it could be as I don't feel right and feel I haven't for a while but just put it down to the menopause. I have a family history of lymphoma and all of these have successfully been treated and recovered from it so I'm not worried about that I'm just worried about how it will wlefdect my life if it is lymphoma as I work fulltime and I never take time off work apart from my hysterectomy and a broken foot, I'm currently off work as don't have the energy to go. I just wanted to vent really as don't want to alarm my family and friends too much. Thankyou for taking the time to read this xx

  • Hello Eshaw

    I'm really sorry to hear about your recent health concerns and that you're now waiting for a CT appointment next week. Hopefully this scan will give the medical team the information they need to make a proper diagnosis and then they can look at what next steps may be appropriate. 

    It's understandable that you're feeling anxious about things and I know that many of our members will agree that this period of uncertainty whilst waiting for tests and results can be really difficult. Sometimes it can help to talk things through with someone. If you'd like to chat with one of our nurses you're most welcome to give them a call on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm. I'm sure they will be happy to talk things through with you and offer any advice and support they can ahead of your next appointment. 

    Keep in touch Eshaw. We're here to listen and offer any support that we can. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

  • Hey. I completely understand where you’re coming from. I’m awaiting an ultrasound on a lump in the side of my neck and also have a similar lymph node swelling under my arm on the opposite side. I work in a hospice so it’s really hard to try think of anything other than worst case. I can’t fathom how I’d function with taking time off work - it’s an alien concept. I’m also 42, and menopausal (or so I thought). I absolutely hate this period of not knowing anything. Just wanted to say I get you! I’m also really annoyed with myself because I noticed the neck lump maybe two months ago but it coincided with a tooth infection so I brushed it off as just lymph nodes swelling. Ugh.

  • Thankyou for replying, I hope all goes OK with your ultrasound the waiting and worrying is the worst part. I was back to a and e Friday as my stomach was so swollen and painful, I was sent home with some medication as I already have a CT scan booked for Thursday they said just need to have that to see what's going on, I just feel so unwell and can't do anything I normally would as I just have no energy. Please let me know how you get on with your ultrasound I can totally understand how your feeling and with the nature of your job it must be even more worrying. Let's hope we will both be fine and are just menopausal middle aged women!!!!