Sorry you find yourself here.

They won’t delay surgery, but you might have further tests or treatment after initial biopsy results before you have the surgery.

For example mine went 14 Feb GP, 07 Mar consultant & core biopsies, 23 Mar core biopsy results, and punch biopsy, 30 Mar MRI, 11 April punch biopsy result and offered provisional surgery date, 13 April MRI result, mag seeds in and mag trace injection, 17 Apr surgery.

Sending you a hug x

Thanks for your replies everyone. Much appreciated.  I will wait and see what they have planned for me on Tues.  

love to all x 

Jackson 

the only thing that got me where my family got concerned is that my lymph nodes were clear on scans ect but after operation I had a teeny trace in one node so then had to have another operation removing all nodes , this scared them cause I had played it down , so it bit me on backside a bit , but after that operation all lymph nodes taken they come back clear panick over xx 

Yeah I’ve not mentioned about nodes to them. Obv my scan showed nothing but as you said, could be different during surgery. So will play that from there.   It has def been a huge weight off my shoulders telling them as that was the only thing I was worried about. So going to leave them a day or 2, to process it all and then go see them again.

I am def not giving in to pjs days haha .  I will be going on as normal as best I can.  Xx

Jacks 

the right mindset you will fly it I promise xx 

Thankyou xx

Hi Jacksonjet,

I am glad to hear that you have told the family. That should be a big weight lifted off your shoulders. It is always better that they hear this news from you and not mistakenly from others. Family can also feel hurt and upset if they don't hear early on, as they naturally want to support you along your journey. My son was also in the army when I broke the news of my second bout of breast cancer, but he dealt with it well. 

Do you have your treatment plan yet or do you know when you are due to have surgery? I sincerely hope that it all goes well for you and that you get good news about your sister's treatment too.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thankyou jolamine

i believe their meetings to go through results are on Thursdays , so they will check MRI scans n hopefully receptor results are back too, so I’m hoping I will hear something by monday x 

Hi Jacksonjet,

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thankyou x 

Jackson 

how are you feeling hope you are feeling a bit better and a bit more over the shock xx 

Hi. Sorry I haven’t been online the last week.   But just to give you an update 

rest of results came back.  Estrogen positive and HER- 2 Negative. (Don’t really know what all that means but nurse said it’s a good thing)

Now have to go for a scan to re check nodes in armpits on the 19th Oct. 

Hi. Sorry I haven’t been online the last week.   But just to give you an update 

rest of results came back.  Estrogen positive and HER- 2 Negative. (Don’t really know what all that means but nurse said it’s a good thing)

Now have to go for a scan to re check nodes in armpits on the 19th Oct. 

Jackson 

that’s the same as I had her2 negative 

how are you feeling ? 

I’m ok, think you just make yourself drained thinking about it all the time.  Other than that I’m fine. So another 2 weeks to wait.  Hopefully I get a surgery date after that scan. X