Hi, I’m 38 and found a lump it lumps, can’t tell, seen my GP Wednesday afternoon and she had also put in a 2 week referral, i recieved a letter this morning to say somebody will be in touch from my local breast clinic which had advised me if I don’t hear anything by Mon 11 to call them. It might be worth giving them a ring. I’m also terrified as my GP didn’t exactly put my mind at ease in my appointment but the waiting is torture, we should keep each other updated x

Hey Lebell!

thanks for posting on the this thread. It sounds like we are in a similar position awaiting our appointments at the breast clinic. I gave them a ring and they advised it’s likely to be in a few weeks time due to backlog. I hope you hear from your local clinic asap so you can get seen and put your mind at ease. 

this waiting around period feels awful doesn’t it? I feel so sick and scared. Sending you love and lots of positive vibes. Ensure you keep yourself busy and do lots of nice things for yourself. Feel free to message and keep us updated. Xx

Hi Lara and Lebell,

Thanks so much, really kind of you. Will keep you posted on the Ultrasound in 2-3 weeks xx

Hi Ruby,

Welcome to the chat forum. Getting a referral is a really worrying time. Is this the first time you have been referred to the breast clinic? How are you holding up? We’re all here to help and chat to - everyone is so lovely here xx

Hi Sandpiper, that sounds like good news. It must be a relief, I’m sure. I just noticed from another comment of yours that you are in Sussex. You’re possibly not far from me- I live on the Surrey/ West Sussex border
I hope you can now have a relaxing weekend xx

Hi Ruby,

Welcome to the forum- we are all spending our time worrying, and it’s so good to be able to chat and compare notes here. I hope you get an appointment and some answers soon xx

Hey GoonerGirl! 

thanks so much for your lovely message. Ooh yes we are relatively near to each other. How did your first appointment go at the hospital? Hope everything is ok xx

I had my first appointment nearly two weeks ago now, and was then referred for a mammogram, ultrasound etc. The ultrasound identified two areas of concern, and so I had biopsies from them. That was on Monday, so I’m now waiting - like so many of us, for results. Weirdly I feel much calmer now than I did before I went- everyone at the hospital on Monday was so lovely, and the ultrasound doctor spent time chatting to me about how treatable breast cancer is now. Obviously I’m still worried, but it’s not consuming all my thoughts now xx

I’m so sorry to hear there were areas of concern and you’re currently awaiting the results. It can’t feel easy waiting, but absolutely amazing that you’re feeling so much calmer now. So pleased that the hospital team were lovely and kind, it makes such an anxious time that bit better doesn’t it? I’m sending you lots of love and positive thoughts and hope you’re not waiting too long for your results. And as you say, treatments are so advanced these days - still very worrying, but do look after yourself during this anxious time and keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy xx

Thank you- I’m sure the feelings of worry will return, but at the moment I’m enjoying feeling calm. It really did make a difference with the hospital team being so lovely xx

Thank you I have received my letter today my appointment is on 5 October. So got a bit of a wait and it is going to be in Rapid Access Breast Surgery Clinic. I haven’t cried yet today so that’s progress. 

Thank you I have received my letter today. My appointment is 5 October so have a bit of a wait.

Thank you I have received my letter today. My appointment is 5 October so have a bit of a wait.

Hi Ruby,

I am sorry to hear that you are in the unenviable position of waiting to be seen at the breast clinic. This is always an anxious time and it causes many of us sleepless nights. Most of us find that keeping busy, whether with work or a pastime helps us to cope with this spell. As you have already discovered, not all lumps are cancerous. Here's hoping that nothing untoward is found this time too.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi 

yes always busy I have a 8 month old and a 4 year old to keep me going. I am actually on maternity leave at the moment. I am just praying and have everything crossed that it will all be over soon and everything will be ok. It’s hard though to not think of the what if … 

You definitely are super busy. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.