New dark spots on vulva

Hi 

I've recently got 3 new moles dark spots like moles appear on my vulva along with labial fusion, ulcer, and lots of easy tearing. My GP referred me to gynecologist under 2 week wait timeline but the gynecologist said they can't say anything about the moles and said GP need to refer me to dermatology. Now the dermatology is saying they can't see me as they don't do vulval excision or biopsies and refer these case back to gynaecology. It's already been three weeks of me struggling with this anxiety of not knowing. Where do I go ? What should I do ? Please guide me.  I feel so lost and alone in this.