Feeling like I’m not being taken seriously

Hi all, I’m 26 years old and I have had a very itchy, sore and tender nipple/areola and sometimes spreading around on my left breast for almost 2 years. It is very similar to eczema, but not quite the same. I do suffer with eczema as I have done all my life, however when I have eczema flare ups it is always symmetrical and my right breast is completely unaffected. I have been backwards and forward to the GP numerous times and been given different steroid creams and moisturisers which have taken down (not completely) the Eczema like rash around my breast but not on my nipple, my nipple is flaky, itchy and 3 weeks ago I noticed that my breast had started swelling and was tender to touch. I also noticed my nipple had changed direction ever so slightly to be pointing upwards and slightly to the left. I expressed my concerns to my GP and she referred me to the breast clinic. 
my breast clinic appointment was the Friday just gone and I left feeling very unimpressed and not listened to. I had a physical examination and was told that it was eczema and to use moisturiser. She couldn’t feel any lumps and I was told that breast cancer is always a lump and it was my eczema pulling my nipple in a different direction and for it to be cancer i had to have a lump or an inverted nipple. I wasn’t offered any other form of investigations I was just discharged with a physical exam (she didn’t even check under my arm pits) and a diagnosis of eczema. 
I just feel like because of my age and obviously because I don’t have a lump I was disregarded. this is not the first time I’ve been disregarded due to my age. I just felt like she was saying because I haven’t got a lump there’s no way it could be cancer. She even told me to Google breast cancer and that it will tell you that you need to have a lump. Now I know this to be false and I just wondered if anyone has had any problems with doctors being the same towards them. I just feel like something more is wrong.  I did not feel welcome at all there and if I see no improvement in a few weeks I will be going back to my gp again and expressing my concerns again. 
thanks for reading

  • Hi, I don't have experience with not being taking seriously but I didn't want to read and not reply. From what I know, you definitely do NOT need a lump to have cancer. However, I would say that the beast clinic doctors are experts and see a lot of boobs! So you would hope that they know exactly what they are looking at. 

    I would say that if you are still concerned, you could either go for a private ultrasound contact PALS with your complaint (or both), or ask for a second opinion, which I think you are entitled to. PALS could advise on this I'm sure.

    I'm sorry that you feel dismissed because of your age but try to be reassured that nothing sinister has been found on examination, which is a good thing. 

  • thank you so much for replying! I get that they’re experts and they know what they’re talking about however this is the same as what happened to me a few years ago, I had to go for a colposcopy and they found hpv and precancerous cells and it was a struggle to get them to listen to me then. They wanted me to just get the coil and crack on before I pushed for some testing. I was barely in the room at the breast clinic for more than 5 minutes, not many questions asked. I’m happy they couldn’t feel anything. I’m going to see if it improves in a couple of weeks and see from there.