Do I really need the mole removed?

Hi, a mole I have had for a very long time became enlongated in the past year. I went to the GP who referred me very quickly to the consultant. He said he was recommending me for a excision biopsy. The referral letter said ‘benign but recommended for removal’. 

I’m not sure why they are conducting a biopsy of the consultant believes it’s benign? Why not keep an eye on it? Further to this, the consultant made it clear the scar wouldn’t be great and it’s in a hard to heal area. I have a very active job and it’s putting my livelihood at risk.

Since the referral both my partner and I believe the mole has lightened. Can someone explain why it needs to be removed if it’s believed to be benign?

Of course my life comes before vanity and my career, but I don’t want a procedure unnecessarily. And really only based on a subjective view that this mole has gotten bigger (my view which could be wrong!).

  • Seek a second opinion as it's your right to do so. What i will say, if the mole is suspect, and has a higher than normal chance to change in future, you kinda have 3 choices, get it removed whilst it's nothing worrisome, which means less tissue needs removed, and quicker healing 2) risk having to get a larger area excised, and a longer healing process should it change, or 3) do nothing and see what happens.

    It's your body and no one can remove anything without your say so, so if you feel it's not what you are wanting or needing, that's ok and yeah, your choice. Imo, I'd seek a second opinion and if the 2nd doc is in agreement with the 1st, then it should be a no brainer. But 2nd opinions can be a good thing so you can make more of an educated choice. If the 2nd opinion differs from the 1st, then go with your gut.