Biopsy result - Would they tell me to bring someone with me if it was bad news?

Long story short I’m waiting for biopsy results for a lymph node in my neck which was done 3 weeks ago. I rang up on Thursday to chase and was told the results weren’t back from the lab yet and not to expect to hear back before the 26th as the consultant is on holiday, but this morning I had a call from the ENT secretary to ask if I could come in on Wednesday morning. She didn’t say anything else and I regret not asking her any questions about the appointment as it is much quicker than I had been expecting, realistically the results can only have come in on Friday/today and I expected to get a letter not a call so I’m fearing the worst.

I’m clinging on to the fact that she didn’t ask me to bring anyone with me though. I was wondering if other people have received a diagnosis whether they always tell you to bring someone, or if this just depends on the hospital/consultant?

I’m glad it’s not long to wait either way and I’ll update the outcome when I know more.

Parents
  • Thanks so much for everyone's kind words and advice. It sounds like in either scenario it's good to bring someone, so I will ask my mum if she can get the morning off so that she can take me. Also a great idea to write questions down, I have been terrible at forgetting what the consultant has said in my appointments so far! Thank you all very much for your support and I will give an update tomorrow xx

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  • Thanks so much for everyone's kind words and advice. It sounds like in either scenario it's good to bring someone, so I will ask my mum if she can get the morning off so that she can take me. Also a great idea to write questions down, I have been terrible at forgetting what the consultant has said in my appointments so far! Thank you all very much for your support and I will give an update tomorrow xx

Children
  • Hi Loobiloo,

    I shall be thinking of you tomorrow and hope that all turns out well.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Hi i was wondering should I be worried my doctor received my cervical biopsy the day after I got it done but was told they can't give results over the phone and need to wait for my letter if it was bad news would I been ask to come in sooner just thought that was quick for them to get results as was told it could take up to 4 weeks as there is a backlog 

  • Hi Cat,

    It is impossible to answer your question. Your consultant has probably given you the 4 week timeline for your biopsy results, because these have to be discussed at a multidisciplinary team meeting (MDT) after they come back. These are usually held on a weekly basis, but, depending on how busy your clinic is, not all cases can be discussed immediately. Most surgeons prefer to give results, whether good or bad, face-to-face, but this is not always possible.

    My hubby got sent a letter informing him of his cancer diagnosis, after waiting 9 weeks for his biopsy results. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer and on both occasions, my surgeon told me personally. On another occasion, my surgeon stated that he was pretty sure that I had cancer, but biopsy proved otherwise. Despite the outcome, I was still given the result in person.

    I hope that you don't have to wait much longer to get the results. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on, We are always here for you.

    Kind regards.

    Jolamine xx