Sent a letter saying it was maybe SSMM but haven't been told yet about biopsy results

Hey, I've never used a forum like this before but I'm just pretty anxious so maybe it will help: 

- I've been referred for a suspicious mole

-been told in the appointment it might be cancer and they scheduled me for it's removal two days later at the same time as someone else's appointment which I put down to me being pretty young (early 20s) 

- I've had a eye-shaped biopsy (not sure if this is the right word but that's what it looked like) 

- Received a letter of the notes my dermatologist made in my initial appointment and in it is the phrase "This is superficial Spreading malignant melanoma in superficial and potentially vertical growth phase." It also says that the biopsy is for "histological confirmation."

So I'm a bit confused but I'm guessing since they did a biopsy they don't know its cancer and it was just a guess but it's phrased like a statement, is it possible to identify SSMM just from the dermoscopy ? I can't stop myself worrying and overthinking this but obvs that feels unnecessary till I've actually got the results of the biopsy. I guess it's just a waiting game but they said it could be 4-6 weeks which feels like a long time to feel this anxious, everyone I've spoken to said if it's cancer you'll find out in the first week is that true? I feel a little imposter syndrom-y even writing on here but i would love some advice!

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  • Hi It’s hard not to be anxious when you’re waiting for results, they usually send off anything that’s removed during surgery to the lab,  to be sure that they have the correct diagnosis and then treatment can be given or you discharged. 
    When you are in the process and are not sure when you will hear the results, it is really hard not to have your self in a spin of what ifs. I would avoid dr Google as they only give worst case, everything is cancer and never that it’s just a simple mole removal. 
    Do try to keep busy l hope you hear something positive soon. 
    take care 

    Susie 

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  • Hi It’s hard not to be anxious when you’re waiting for results, they usually send off anything that’s removed during surgery to the lab,  to be sure that they have the correct diagnosis and then treatment can be given or you discharged. 
    When you are in the process and are not sure when you will hear the results, it is really hard not to have your self in a spin of what ifs. I would avoid dr Google as they only give worst case, everything is cancer and never that it’s just a simple mole removal. 
    Do try to keep busy l hope you hear something positive soon. 
    take care 

    Susie 

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