Melanoma concerns

Hello, 

I noticed a new mole on my forearm a couple of years ago I have been kind of keeping an eye on it, I took a photo 12 months ago and then when I looked recently it looked a lot bigger and darker than then.

I saw my gp and then the dermatologist yesterday, he said he didn't like the look of it and can't rule out a melanoma so I will be having it removed within two weeks.

I am so frightened now because I have left it so long I am having shoulder and neck pain which I am now obviously connecting to my mole, I am just terrified that it is a melanoma and also that it has spread because I have left it 2 years I don't know what I'm looking for on here really I just keep googling stuff and it's making me feel worse 

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  • Hi Julie,

    I know how worried you must be but please try not to fixate on how long you've left it. IF it's malignant (and that's a large IF) it doesn't mean it's been so for that long. Moles start out benign and then turn cancerous so it may only have changed recently. 

    75% of patients referred to dermatology receive a clean bill of health so the odds are good that your mole is benign or dysplastic (precancerous). Failing that, if it's malignant there's a good chance it's still been caught early so it's not as bleak as you fear.

    The worst part of all this is the waiting. You will have a few weeks waiting for the results once it's been removed so I suggest you find ways to distract yourself to ease the anxiety.

    Good luck and please let us know how you get on.

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

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  • Hi Julie,

    I know how worried you must be but please try not to fixate on how long you've left it. IF it's malignant (and that's a large IF) it doesn't mean it's been so for that long. Moles start out benign and then turn cancerous so it may only have changed recently. 

    75% of patients referred to dermatology receive a clean bill of health so the odds are good that your mole is benign or dysplastic (precancerous). Failing that, if it's malignant there's a good chance it's still been caught early so it's not as bleak as you fear.

    The worst part of all this is the waiting. You will have a few weeks waiting for the results once it's been removed so I suggest you find ways to distract yourself to ease the anxiety.

    Good luck and please let us know how you get on.

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

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