hi!

i've always had trouble with my ears and had some inflammation in my ears when a little pea sized lump showed up. it didn't hurt or anything, just stayed there. 

just behind my left ear, less than a cm across, regular round shape, immovable, not tender or itchy or anything. cant see it can just feel it. 

since then it's just not gone away. if i mess with it for a bit it shrinks but always comes back. some days feels bigger than others 

i feel like it's just a swollen lymph node but i'm panicking as alot of what i've seen said if it's that it'll be itchy or tender and it's not at all