Hard unmovable lump on the back of my head

Hi,

Im a bit nervous writing this as don't know what to say to be honest, a while ago I noticed a lump on the back of my head that's hard and unmovable, I've been putting off going to the doctors to get it checked out because I feel stupid going and I have massive anxiety about seeing professionals due to some bad experiences, I did some research not long ago to see what it could be and one of the options were cancer... I'm not sure if I'm scaring myself or if I should actually see a doctor as soon as possible, what I'm terrified of is if it were to be cancer or something serious is how I'd cope with the diagnosis, and if they'd take my little girl away. Can I ask if not too personal what other symptoms anyone whom has had a diagnosis had before actually receiving it? Thanks in advance and God bless

  • Hello charliexoxo and a big welcome to Cancer Chat, 

    I know you mentioned you've had bad experiences seeing medical professionals but I think it would be a good idea to try and talk to your GP about this. Don't feel stupid going to the doctor's - that's what they are there for. Stay well away from the temptation to do any research yourself as looking things up online will inevitably bring up the worst and least likely scenario. But with any lump, it is always best to have it looked at by a medical expert even if only for peace of mind. Only your doctor will be able to tell you what it might be. 

    So try to just take one brave step at a time and make an appointment with your GP. Don't anticipate what it might be as it might be so many other things than cancer. 

    I hope that you will hear from other forum members who have been in a similar situation before and that they will come and share their story with you. 

    Everything crossed for you that it all turns out to be nothing concerning,

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator