Worrying Mole

Hi everyone.

around 12 weeks ago I found a new mole on my trunk. 
it was just under 6mm.

i was so worried I started to mess with it, squeezing it, touching it etc.

within days it fell off!! 

i made an appointment with a GP and they said it seemed fine, bear in mind it had fallen off. They looked with a dermatascope. 
it started to grow back so I put it on SkinVision that said it was high risk! 
 

i was so scared I went back to the GP and they said it didn't need a referral to a dermatologist but they would take it off as minor surgery. It was removed a month later.

now, I've looked on pictures and noticed it's been growing for 18 months. The doctor didn't know that but as I didn't at the time. Now I'm worried it was a melanoma. 
 

I've been waiting 5 weeks for the biopsy results.

I've become very anxious and I'm tired all the time.

im worried it's spread. 
 

is there anyone that can help? 

  • Hi,

    New moles aren't, in themselves, worrying as they are normal up to the age of 40. After that, a new mole may need checking out. However, if your new mole also presented with any other worries, as per the ABCDE rules, then it's good it was removed. Hopefully yours was just a new mole that will come back from the biopsy as benign.

    Unfortunately waiting times for results is anything from 8 to 12 weeks at most hospitals so I hope you aren't waiting much longer. Good luck and please let us know how you get on.

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

  • Hi folks.

    I just wanted to give an update on this. 
     

    after eleven agonising weeks I have had the histology back. 
     

    I had a text message from my doctor to say the mole is 'totally benign' their exact words.

     

    I can't tell you how much this site has been a comfort to me during the wait for the results.

    thank you everyone who writes their stories on here as it's truly helped.

    thank you and I wish everyone well. 

  • Thanks for the update. It's great to hear it's benign and your update will help new patients see that not all moles that are removed turn out to be cancerous.