lump on lymph under ear

i have a large lump under my left earlobe which has been there for a long time its has became really sore and much bigger .i also have had lumps in groin since young adulthood .lately my health has declined pretty badly every symptom going from severe headaches and poor concentration to feitness dizzyness ..aching muscles long lasting fatigue swollen painfull sides .pains in chest and more . these symptoms have been going on for months now and i think its time to face the music and go to the doctors but in my family cancer has affected nearly everyone above 40 .i was doing amazing after recovering another coma and pushing hard until i got ill .i did put my body through hell after consuming a huge amount of antifreeze and slipping into a coma i suffered hundred of seizures multi organ failure and more .im pretty concerned and not really organised enough to get myself to doctors atm .ive never felt as ill in my body except after the comas i have one good day meet daughters go swimming then im in bed for days sleeping non stop .tomorrow i have an appointment with docs for blood tests for reno functions is there aymore tests i can request as all my family have theyre cancer misdiagnosed until its too late .we always are strong and pretty healthy till its took a serious hold 

  • Hello Leev1974

    I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with multiple ongoing medical concerns. It sounds like it's really impacting your quality of life. 

    I'm glad to hear that you were due to see your GP today. They are the best first point of contact to try to give you some reassurance and improve things for you. Hopefully, they will arrange any appropriate tests and/or referrals for you. 

    I hope that things settle for you soon. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator