Maybe see another doctor? Is this a possibility? 

However, while I do think this needs to be checked out and if you don't trust your doctor, then I hope you can get to see somebody you trust more, the odds of it being bowel cancer are fairly low. That is not to say it shouldn't be investigated, but many things can cause blood in the stool and your other symptoms.

If it is any consolation, over the summer, I had some symptoms of bowel cancer - rectal bleeding, weight loss, some loose stools (maybe once or twice a week), trapped wind... - and the specialist told me that if my mother came in with the same symptoms, he would be considering bowel cancer as a possibility but that at my age - 40 - it was possible but it would be the least likely of all the possible options and I would be "the most unlucky person in the world" if that turned out to be the answer. It turned out to be hemorrhoids, possibly combined with some mild effects of my thyroid medication and the stress of the whole situation. The latter is something to keep in mind too and is the awful part of bowel cancer symptoms. That obviously having bowel cancer symptoms is going to cause stress and stress often causes GI symptoms, some of which are also symptoms of bowel cancer, which of course, increases your stress and makes you feel bowel cancer is more likely, thereby exacerbating your stress symptoms.

Given the age of your son, I am guessing you are around my age or even younger, at which point, bowel cancer is possible but unlikely.

Having cancer in your family is bound to add to your concerns, as is having a small child. But there are many causes of your symptoms - ulcerative colitis, Crohn's, a polyp, etc - that are more likely than bowel cancer and even in the situation where you had bowel cancer, which you probable don't, it does not mean you would die of it. People recover and even those who do not recover may live for many years. 

Maybe see another doctor? Is this a possibility? 

However, while I do think this needs to be checked out and if you don't trust your doctor, then I hope you can get to see somebody you trust more, the odds of it being bowel cancer are fairly low. That is not to say it shouldn't be investigated, but many things can cause blood in the stool and your other symptoms.

If it is any consolation, over the summer, I had some symptoms of bowel cancer - rectal bleeding, weight loss, some loose stools (maybe once or twice a week), trapped wind... - and the specialist told me that if my mother came in with the same symptoms, he would be considering bowel cancer as a possibility but that at my age - 40 - it was possible but it would be the least likely of all the possible options and I would be "the most unlucky person in the world" if that turned out to be the answer. It turned out to be hemorrhoids, possibly combined with some mild effects of my thyroid medication and the stress of the whole situation. The latter is something to keep in mind too and is the awful part of bowel cancer symptoms. That obviously having bowel cancer symptoms is going to cause stress and stress often causes GI symptoms, some of which are also symptoms of bowel cancer, which of course, increases your stress and makes you feel bowel cancer is more likely, thereby exacerbating your stress symptoms.

Given the age of your son, I am guessing you are around my age or even younger, at which point, bowel cancer is possible but unlikely.

Having cancer in your family is bound to add to your concerns, as is having a small child. But there are many causes of your symptoms - ulcerative colitis, Crohn's, a polyp, etc - that are more likely than bowel cancer and even in the situation where you had bowel cancer, which you probable don't, it does not mean you would die of it. People recover and even those who do not recover may live for many years. 

Thanks for ur reply very much appreciated, kind of puts my mind at ease a little. I wasn't really thinking about it after I seen the doc last time but these symptoms just kept getting worse each month that was passing so done another test. The surgery I'm with is very small so only has 2 doctors and 2 pharmacists and both docs get so many patients each and I was registered to the woman I'm with now. Have asked to be changed to the male doc but they stated that he has a waiting list from patients who are already with the practice as there priority to take on new patients 1st so I'm thinking of just moving doctors altogether. It's usually when I see an ad or something on TV that reminds me about bowel cancer then gets me worried again for the rest of the day.  I'm almost 40 so Ur guess was no far off and I knew about hemorrhoids could be a possibility but didn't know about the others u mentioned so that's gave me a bit of positivity that maybe I'm thinking to much into this. Just alittle confused as to all my 7 positive test to the doctors 1 negative just because 3 of the tests I don't are the exact same as the doctors test. Think 1 more docs test will put my mind at ease completely but thank you for Ur advice as it's help ease a little at the possibility of being something that doesn't need to be worried about.