Worried about melanoma

Hello, 

my son is 16 and has a bump on the skin on his forearm. I first noticed it over a year ago. We think it may have started as a bite or an inflamed keratosis Polaris but can't be sure. 
initially it was a firm nodule about 3mm and was skin coloured with a slightly darker ring 
As it didn't go away, I took him to the GP in January. She said it might be a mole and to just keep an eye on it. 
Last weekend I noticed it has turned pink and seems more raised. It blanches when I put pressure on it. My son hadn't noticed the change. 
I had a telephone consultation with another GP who asked for photos. She said it looks like a dermatofibroma and has sent the photos to dermatology. 
I've looked up dermatofibroma and it does look like that but it doesn't dimple when pinched like a dermatofibroma should. 
I'm just so worried as my mum had melanoma many years ago and passed away from lung cancer and I have  suffered with health anxiety ever since. 
I really don't want to pass on my anxiety to my son so am trying to not keep looking at and touching it. 
im just so worried it could be a melanoma. 
Thank you for reading. 
Sara

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  • Hi Sara,

    I can understand this must be unsettling, particularly if you have some family history, but you've done the right thing in getting it checked with the doctor and it sounds like they are doing their best to get the answers you need.

    Try if you can, as you say, to avoid looking things up online about this, or to check it too often. I know this can be easier said than done, but it only tends to increase the worries and it's only the medical team who can advise on this.

    I hope it's not too long for you to wait to hear back and to get the results.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

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