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Hi, new here, waiting 3 weeks for exam

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Hey everyone,

I found a hard, odd shaped unmoving lump, about the size of the top part of my thumb in my right breast 3 weeks ago, spoke to my GP after the weekend and he referred me to the breast clinic, I've just had a call saying my appointment is in a week- next Thursday.

I know there are waiting times and covid has caused delays but I'm really anxious. How does everyone cope? I've got a 6 year old daughter.

I've only told my husband because I don't want to cause concern for people before we know anything... But it also means I feel like I'm holding onto a secret that's so difficult.

I'm going to have to tell my boss because I'll need to take half a day off next week when I'm supposed to be taking overtime (I know I don't HAVE to but it'll be better if I do) but I don't know how.

Also, I've started getting a really spotty neck recently, does anyone know if that's a symptom of anything? I'm 38 and I've also had hypothyroidism since I was 16.

 

Anyway sorry rant over... How do I get through the next week?

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    Hi Twinkygirl,

    A very warm welcome to our forum

    You have done the right thing by getting this investigated. This is always a worrying time, so I'm glad to see that you don't have long to wait for your appointment. Only 1 pperson in every 8 referred to the breast clinic will get a cancer diagnosis, as not all lumps are cancerous. Many turn out to be benign cysts, hormonal or fibrous changes.

    Most people don't tell anyone other that a loved one until they get a diagnosis. However I can understand the need to tell your boss. Why not just say that you have to go to hosspital for an investigation. There is no need to mention the 'C' word until you know what you are dealing with.

    The best way to get through the next week is to keep yourself busy - it doesn't matter whhat with. Do you have any pastimes you could participate in? Try not to blow this out of all proportion. Breast cancer is one of the most treatable forms of cancer today. I have had 2 bouts in the past 12 years and I still lead a busy and fulfilling life.

    I sincerely hope that all turns out well for you. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on and, remember that we are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

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    Thank you Jolamine, you're right, I need to stop catasrophizing. I'm healthy, don't drink or smoke and I'm still under 40 so I guess the chances are low.

    It's been hard waiting three weeks already, but it's only one more week... Thanks for the advice, my daughter's got a sleepover over the weekend so we're gonna have a date night! Something to look forward to

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    Hi Twinkygirl,

    We nearly all tend to overthink things, so don't worry about it. Keep reminding yourself that 'it isn't cancer until you're told that it's cancer.'

    A date night sounds like a great idea. I hope that you both enjoy it!

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

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