Hi! I'm so sorry for what you must be going through at the moment. I don't have any words of wisdom, but just wanted to send you a big hug. I am in a very similar position at the moment; I found a breast lump, have a young toddler, am 39, and have my breast clinic appointment on 9 March also. I'm finding the waiting absolutely terrifying and just keep thinking about my toddler, it's such a rollercoaster isn't it. I've been reassured that the majority of breast lumps are not too serious, but it's so hard not to think the worst. I've only told my Dr too, and so wanted to send you a message of support. I really hope it goes ok on 9th, sending lots of positivity and strength to you x