I am 48 male and within last 2 weeks feel like my life has turned upside down. I have been banging on at doctors since  Feb 21 that I have a problem to be fobbed of with antibiotics.. etc etc etc.

I have now had 4 tumours removed fro. Bladder and are cancerous no one sits you down to break the news I needed to make it be said .. its hard and its not fully sink in .. life goes on . I don't know how to react if I'm honest . I'm not sure if it will return . 8 have had chemotherapy C  purple stuff by catheter.  I don't know if it's spread yet . I just don't know much at all . I have a great partner and for me that is all I want 

 I know the doctors will do there Best for all but it's my life now . Not sure what I am trying to say . But vest wishes to all.

I am 48 male and within last 2 weeks feel like my life has turned upside down. I have been banging on at doctors since  Feb 21 that I have a problem to be fobbed of with antibiotics.. etc etc etc.

I have now had 4 tumours removed fro. Bladder and are cancerous no one sits you down to break the news I needed to make it be said .. its hard and its not fully sink in .. life goes on . I don't know how to react if I'm honest . I'm not sure if it will return . 8 have had chemotherapy C  purple stuff by catheter.  I don't know if it's spread yet . I just don't know much at all . I have a great partner and for me that is all I want 

 I know the doctors will do there Best for all but it's my life now . Not sure what I am trying to say . But vest wishes to all.

Sorry to hear this and hope you are coping. I have been told I have 2 tumours and am due for TURBT on 19th. In a similar place to you with life turned upside down. Stay strong as reading other people's experiences they do get through this.