Hi my husband is 71 and in June 2021 he had radical surgery to remove his bladder,prostrate and 33 lymph node, of which 17 came back positive..... He coped amazing with his recovery and he is doing fantastic with his stoma. When we saw the oncologist 8 weeks later we were told his cancer was very aggressive and without treatment he would have up to 6 months of life, with treatment he could be looking at a 50% chance of living a year to eighteen months. We were absolutely stunned and it felt like our hearts were torn apart. Dave chose to go with chemotherapy and is on his third session, he has only had the chemo rash and constipation other than this he is very well indeed. We see the oncologist before every session for a review which is only a few minutes of his time. We are so concerned as to what might happen in the near future but because he is so well we consider that is a very lucky place to be..... please has anyone had this diagnosis but can't believe it as he is so well . Regards Lorraine
