Hi all, 

In July I was diagnosed with Thyroid cancer which has spread to some of my lymph nodes in my neck, I had a biopsy which my husband came along with me and he was well aware that cancer was a option and the doctors were 90% sure that's what it was.

When I received my results my husband completely changed and is no longer supportive at all, to be honest we don't have a great relationship and he can be very overbearing, controling and nasty at times, he is refusing to believe that I need this operation to remove all my thyroid and the nodes and that I can go down a natural route and all my cancer will be cleared.

I did have a date booked in for September but I cancelled it as I felt pressured, I was being told I wasn't welcome back home if I did the op, I don't come from here but have lived in Birmingham for over 15 years and been married to my husband for 14 years.

I really don't know what to do, I'm scared of not doing it and leaving it in case in spreads, I'm scared it already has, I'm scared to have the operation and come home to the back lash 

I rang my nurse last week and asked her to book the op back in for November if possible, I thought that gives me some time to sort stuff out, I tried talking to him tonight but that Didn't go well.

Im worried and I really don't know what to do, I'm scared about everything, I've never even broken a finger let alone fighting cancer, I'm really sorry to moan as I know there is people here who are worse at the moment than me and I send you all love.

I have two beautiful daughters and deep down I know I got them to think about and live for.

I just need some advice, thanks all for taking the time.

God Bless