Hi, My Mum has been told in A&E when just having bloods to see if she was anemic initially tat she has a primary lung cancer and lesions in liver nad spleen, this is not helped with multiple blood clots in lungs also. Treatment for the clots as started but we are currently in the periodof waiting for MDT meeting findings to know a plan. So within 8 hours we went from anemic to death sentance as far as I am concerned. Any advise or persons experiencing similar? I have been here before with best friend and partner so feel very knowledgable in one way but lost in so many. 

I am assuming paliative care will be the only option but feel guilty for being so negative, not that I have shared this with her obviously.