Hi Mary,

Hope you are well and that your throat infections have now gone, I can't believe it's over a month since we last spoke!

I do hope your final scan was good news and all is ok with you, I'm pleased to say both my PET and CT scan both showed that my back of the tongue cancer has gone and I'm now in remission.

I'm very relieved to say the least as the last 8 months have been a rollercoaster of emotions and to be honest it's been absolute hell some days but here I am at the other end at last!

I'm 14 weeks post treatment now and although I'm now all clear I still seem to have a very sore throat with issues swallowing and a deep nasal voice plus the Lymphoedema has made my neck swell up like a balloon making me very self conscious about going out.

How is your appetite? Mine is still non existent and with no taste and saliva I still really struggle with food, however its a small price to pay for being clear and I know and pray things will get better eventually.

Once again Mary I hope all is well with you and that the post treatment symptoms are not too much of an issue for you and hopefully we can now both get some normality back to our lives.

Best wishes

Peter.

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Hi

Have you not had an appointment at the Lymphoedema clinic to learn massage techniques to move all the fluid in your neck ?

Hi,

Thanks for the advice.

I was told by my oncologist that it was an unfortunate but common side effect of the radiotherapy, when I asked if anything could be done about it I was told it was something I'd need to live with and it might go away in time.

I've since learned there is a Lymphoedema clinic in the same hospital I was treated in but this was not mentioned to me, apparently you need to be referred by the oncologist which I'm about to do.

Hi

I was told it was a side effect of having all my lympth nodes removed with nothing in my neck left to move the lymphatic fluid, thus i had to learn to move it to the ones under my armpit.

I had the lymphoedema under control by the time i started radiotherapy and keep it under control by using these techniques.

It's strange how different people are told different things i was referred to the lymphoedema clinic based at my local hospice.

Keep posotive

Sorry to jump in on this post but my husband is now 10 months post treatment for tonsil cancer.  He also had lymphoedema of the neck due to the effects of radiotherapy.  I just want to say that you can be referred to the lymphoedema clinic not just by oncology but also by you gp, obviously it's better to come from the oncologist as it will be faster.  He was given exercises to do and they have a big effect on your appearance if you do them everyday, he goes to clinic every 4 months or so for a review. Please don't think it's something you just have to live with

hope this helps

Judy 

Hi Judy,

Thank you for the information, there does seem to be a mixed feedback from the medical staff I've spoken to re my neck Lymphoedema, today I had my final meeting with the McMillan nurse to have my feeding tube removed (what a relief!) and when I mentioned my large neck swelling she said the same as my oncologist, that it was something I'd have to live with and that I was to massage my neck regularly and that might help, but no mention was made of any clinic.

I will contact my GP as they might be more able to help as my neck is very swollen and tender and seems to be getting worse with every passing day so I would like some help to relieve the swelling.

Thanks again for your advice.

Best wishes.

Peter.

Hi Mary,

Great to hear from you, yes it has been a great weight of my shoulders especially my wife and daughters as it's not been easy for them,  they've been a rock to me during the last six difficult months, although I'm still in a permanent state of tiredness and exhaustion especially in the morning but mentally I'm more back to my old self.

My voice has gone very nasal and I'm told this might be a permanent feature but the good news is I no longer need to do the speech exercises which is great! My appetite like yours is very slow progress, to be honest if it wasn't for my wife forcing me to have regular meals every day I'd probably not eat at all, as it is I've lost nearly 7lbs since February I must try much harder to eat more!

My RIG feeding tube was removed today, what a relief to feel it gone!

Once again Mary we are both now on the home stretch and thank you for your kind words on my good news.

Best wishes

Peter.

Awe, That's great news the RIG is gone. Onwards and Upwards Peter. Chat again Soon.

Take care

Mary

No problem, you're very welcome. if you search YouTube or Google for lymphoedema exercises for head &neck cancer you can make a start whilst your waiting to be referred, we were told once you had it you have it always so they really are key to keeping it under control.  With regard to eating, taste will eventually come back, unfortunately if you liked chilli/curries etc you probably won't be able to tolerate them anymore!  Hubby still has to have water to hand and needs it for every meal but he does now eat relatively normally.  His appetite did take months to return tho and is still not completely back how it was.  Please don't take any of this negatively, I just want to reassure you that what you're experiencing is 'normal' 

take care

Judy x