Sorry about the diagnosis, it is devastating and hard to come to terms with 

Being in similar situation I can offer moral support, and what you said about scans before treatment offering is accurate and I am at this stage.

Regarding private care, this would mean calling the companies and talking to them. I have used private clinics before and do find them useful for initial diagnosis. Nuffield is one I have gone to but there are others it means calling and talking to them to see what they can do, good luck.

You so much for the reply, but sadly pasted away last Friday.

The Wednesday before last, they told us she had cancer and there was nothing they could do for her. They give her a couple of weeks at best.

She was in critical care at the time and being looked after by the wonderful of people. They asked if there was anything they could do I asked if they could marry us.

We always planned to get married but life just gets in the way at times. It was wonderful, but I can't face watching the videos or looking at the photos.

She passed away the following day surrounded by her family.

Our world has been turned upside down, my youngest is about to start secondary school in two weeks and I can hardly sleep and now 19-year-old doesn't stop crying,

Every day I wake up and for a split second I think everything is okay and then I roll over and realise she's gone and it hits me again.

I have a lot of support from my family and friends but none of them can give us what we want, her back.

I've tried to get some support for my 11-year-old and he started to see counsellor just so we can talk to her because it's too soon for anything more. I'm in the process of sorting out a funeral and I spend my time telling people the same story over and over again which is just heartbreaking.

I am so sorry for your loss, I hope you can find some solace in the memories and the support of family, friends - online and personal. 

My sincere condolences for your loss.