Mum diagnosed with stage 3 Womb Cancer

My step-mum, who in my eyes is basically my mum, was recently diagnosed with Womb Cancer. We were waiting the results of the scan to confirm whether it was Stage 1 or 2 and then were hit with the bombshell that it was stage 3 and they needed to do a further scan to check it hadn't spread to her lungs. 

I'm all sorts of emotions right now. We didn't even think stage 3 was on the table let alone the possibility of stage 4. She's the Nanny to my little boy and I don't even know where to start to explain this when she starts to get sick. 

They haven't even said surgery is a possibility. At the moment there is talks of Chemotherapy 3 times a week every 3 weeks and potential for her to have some experimental treatment if she fits the criteria. 

I just have no idea how to help. We've offered to support them financially if they need it, and sort meals out for when she's too ill from treatment. We've even offered to buy her a sofa bed incase she deteroriates and can't make it up the stairs. We're trying to stay optimistic, but it seems the odds are against her. 

We've already lost family members to Covid and this is just the icing. I just need somewhere to vent as I feel so useless. 

 

  • Hello GA92

    I'm sorry to hear about your Mum's diagnosis. It's obviously a shock for you all and understandable that you're feeling so concerned and anxious about her upcoming treatment. I'm sure that they appreciate all the support that you've been able to offer. 

    We do have some information here on our website which may be of help but I'd really encourage you to speak with our team of nurses. I'm sure they will be able to offer some advice and information that you may find useful whilst she is still waiting for the final scans before treatment starts. They're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    I also wanted to give you this link which you may find helpful for thinking about what you want to tell your little boy. 

    I hope that you found it helpful to post here on the forum. Knowing that you have a safe space to vent can be really important when a loved one is dealing with cancer so please do keep in touch and post here as often as you feel you want or need to. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator