Just listen to her worries and concerns. Be positive but tell her you understand that it's a really difficult time for her and she will have times where she doesn't feel positive. I got told on 31/3 I had breast cancer and had surgery 21/4. My partner has been great he knows I'm uncomfortable but still need to do what I can so let's me. We have chatted about everything from the first appointment to what if I have to have chemo and lose my hair. Be guided by her. 

Hope all goes well x

Just listen to her worries and concerns. Be positive but tell her you understand that it's a really difficult time for her and she will have times where she doesn't feel positive. I got told on 31/3 I had breast cancer and had surgery 21/4. My partner has been great he knows I'm uncomfortable but still need to do what I can so let's me. We have chatted about everything from the first appointment to what if I have to have chemo and lose my hair. Be guided by her. 

Hope all goes well x

Thanks for the advice it so good of you to reply it's means a lot coming from a person who is going through what can only be a horrible experience. 
I've not said a lot to my wife at the moment only how we will get through this. We will chat today now I'm starting to understanding what happens with this condition. 
I think what you advised is the key and so important but I want to be able to support her in what her options are so I can at least  have a idea what she may have to handle. 
Thank you for your reply it's so very much appreciated. 
I hope your treatment is going well and I do so hope you get through it. 
Thank you  

Had my wife's results through today all good nothing to worry about she now back on the 3 year checks. Could not of hoped for better news. 
I wish everyone could receive news like this. 

Amazing news Rasher, I'm so pleased for you both :happy:

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

That's great news. All the best.

Louise x