I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months now and we have had our ups and downs (he suffers from depression). We had an argument over text last week, when he blurted out that he had been diagnosed with a brain tumour.  I was in complete shock!  I had no idea!  I know he went for a hospital appointment on the 2nd March, and I even saw him on the 4th of March and he didn't say a word about it.  After our conversation over text, he blocked me on whatsapp and told me to go and find someone else to date and be happy with.  I did manage to message him on normal text the next day, and tell him how sorry I was about our argument and to hear about his diagnosis, also that I was there for him. He told me the same thing; he wants me to find someone else to make me happy and bring me joy.  Ever since, I have been very emotional; thinking about how he is coping, how he is feeling, and it breaks my heart to think of him suffering on his own (his family don't live nearby).  I feel pretty useless right now.  I'm giving him space to adjust to his awful news and I so want to be there for him.  I feel like he is pushing me away completely.  Is there anything else anyone could recommend that I can do?