My dad is to advanced for any help it's all happened so quickly couldn't even do a full turbt operation to stop the gross heamaturia we have hospice at home about to start all this in 6 weeks from fist blood in sample .. I'm carer for both my parents .. all ask me for answers .. loads I need to ask but never get chance .. or time ... dad memory as got worse with this and he is forgetting he as cancer thank fully so trying to hide how poorly he is is so hard any body going threw this ... advanced bladder distant metastatic lungs and elsewhere
