Hi there ...

That's why we come on here .. we've all been there done that... and got the tea shirt ... l think we think we know how we'd feel... what we'd do if given a cancer diagnoses... but in truth, we don't... untill those words are said to us... it all goes out the window ... and it's so hard for others to "get it" and as much as they try, it's not the same as talking to others in the same boat...

The same for carers ... they come on here, because that job of watching someone we love going through it , well they need someone who "knows" too ... it's like this is a safe place, to honestly say how we feel .. and have a shoulder to lean on ... so take a day at a time ... empathise how hard it is being close to someone going through this journey,  and not quite knowing what to do or say sometimes ... Chrissie x