I don’t know what do to - diagnosed with appendix cancer

I've just been diagnosed with appendix cancer which has spread to my abdomen which doesn't sound hopeful. The doctors have referred me to a specialist team, but I have to wait a few week to find out what stage and if it can be treated.

Im devestated, I have had several panic attacks so far today and don't know what to do with myself. 

I have 2 kids (11months and 4) and a husband. I've told my husband but I have no idea what to do next and how to tell the rest of my family.

I can't eat, I'm a mess

  • Hello there MummaP,

     

    I am so sorry to read about your diagnosis. I can't even begin to imagine what an awful shock that must have been for you and your husband. Take some time to let the diagnosis sink in, you will be feeling sick and numb with shock. Talk to your husband about your feelings, and eventually if you want to you can tell your family together. You say you have two children? Allow them to be your strength. Good luck with your next appointment. I have just had a very close family member diagnosed with cancer, and we are also awaiting for the next appointment. The days are going over in such a haze. Be kind to yourself and stay strong, you've got this x