Neck mole melanoma

Hi there, within the last month, I've had a biopsy from a suspicious mole on my neck and 2 days ago after confirmation of melanoma I've had a wider excision taken. They said it was 0.4mm and not necessary for lymph node tests but I can't control my negative thoughts as this kills people apparently.

they have taken photos of other moles on my body that look very suspicious and I have over a hundred moles. I keep thinking what if they miss something and I keep looking at my children and getting upset, tbh I'm all over the place, thanks for listening 

  • I'm sorry the biopsy of your mole showed melanoma Dunny.

    As your thoughts are having an impact on your mental health do be sure to talk this through with your medical team so they can understand why not having the lymph node tests is worrying you. 

    I'm sure some of our members who have been in similar situations will offer their support and advice to you soon but our team of cancer nurses are available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m if you'd like to discuss this with them as well.

    I know this must be really tough, especially when you're thinking of your little ones, but if you can, try to take things a day at a time until you find out more.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, CAncer Chat Moderator