Hi Coral-Reef,

Thank you for giving us your update. I am glad to hear that you decided to let some friends know, as we all need support at this stage. I agree that it is hard not to tell the world in the early stages. Many decide not to tell anyone until they get their test results through and know what they are dealing with. 

I am delighted to hear that the support you've had has been so amazing. There will always be a few that are not so helpful - not everyone knows how to deal with someone who has cancer. On the whole, these tend to be the more negative people, who you will find that you eventually will want to avoid.

Telling people that you don't want to talk about it and using text was a good idea, as we can get some very inane comments face-to-face at times - no doubt, you can still get a few by text as well!

It is good to hear that you have made yourself your priority for now, taking some 'me time' and going for walks with friends.

I hope that all continues to go well for you and, remember that we are here for you whenever you want to chat.

Kindest regards,

Jolamine xx

Thank you Jolamine. 

It's the strangest thing. So surreal. 

The other thing I've found is people asking about treatment when I'm in no rush. 

It's so individual and essentially private 

Good luck All on your journey 

We are all Warriors