Metastatic breast cancer

Hi all,

 

I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer that had spread to a lymph node in my lung but the team belived this to be localised and proposed a series of chemo. After securing a second opinion, the lesion in the lung was removed and tested and this week my oncologist confirmed that it was indeed breast cancer so I have de novo metastatic breast cancer. Still trying to process this information but obviously was in a total state of shock and pretty devastated as until this point I had believed I could hopefully be cured, not just treated. 
 

Please let me know if anyone has any advice on how to deal with such a diagnosis. It's so hard trying to explain it to family and friends and to reach a level of thinking that we need to live each day as it comes. Also does anyone have any advice in terms of diet or anything else that you can do alongside your treatment?  You read about the Gersen Therapy and other thoughts on what to eat and what not to eat but I also feel overwhelmed by that!

 

It's also odd as aside from the surgery which I think I have recovered well from, I still feel very well physically so I'm going from feeling well to, I guess, knowing this may get very bad, very quickly! 

 

Thanks for any thoughts. 

  • Hello SKJ12, 

    Welcome to Cancer Chat! I am sorry about your diagnosis and I can imagine it must have come as a real shock to you and it's normal that you are still trying to process everything. I hope that you will hear from other ladies here who have had a similar diagnosis. It helps to talk to others who find themselves in a similar boat. I thought I would mention another lady on the forum who has also been diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer recently [@JulieD123]‍. You can read her story here and feel free to respond to her if you wish. I hope that you will hear from many of our members who find themselves in a similar situation. 

    You asked about Gerson therapy and I think it is important to stress that there is no scientific evidence that it can treat cancer or its symptoms and it can also have severe side effects. You can read more about this on our website on this page. You can find helpful diet advice here to help you have a balanced diet and therefore help you cope with cancer treatment. Whatever you consider doing alongside cancer treatment, it is absolutely essential that you talk to your specialist/medical team about this as they will be able to tell you whether it may interfere with your current treatment or not. More information on the subject of complementary therapies can be found here.

    It's great though that despite all this, you are currently feeling well and I am glad that you have recovered fully from your surgery. Best of luck with your treatment - I hope it all goes well and f you have any questions at any point, don't hesitate to get in touch with our cancer nurses on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator