What to do?

Hi

This is my first post, Ive just found out my mum has cancer and has possibly weeks / months to live. At this moment she is fully able and fit,which makes it hard to believe even more as shes not showing any signs of illness i know any day it will start. Ive got so many thoughts going round my head i just cant think straight. Ive put this post up for advise on what things you have regreted not doing with your mum in her final days months ive got limited time and is there anything you look back at now and think wish i had said or done that with her. We are very close i am an only child and shes been amazing from the start im dreading the next few months. My wife Is

being amazing helping me, just thought id put a quick message for ideas 

Thanks

 

 

  • Hi there ...

    While she's o.k.. make the most of every day you have ... live in the day ... ask her about her life ... bet there's lots you don't know... see if there's anywhere she wants to go ... anything she wants to do .. listen to her ... you can't take it away... but you can hold her hand on this last journey...

    Make a lifetime of memories .. doesn't have to be big .. watch a movie she likes ... 

    Try not to look ahead ... it will be a hard journey at the end... but one you'll be pleased you filled with love ..   sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie x

  • Thanks so much for the reply, weve started to do simple things just anything to try take her mind off whats happening. Just spending time with her is nice, listening to her stories from growing up

    Thanks again ill use you advise