Just found out I have Stage 3C Cervical Caner

I ound out Wednesday I have stage 3C cervical cancer, I have to have scans over next few days to see if it has gone to my kidneys, liver and lungs as it is in my lymph nodes.
I have no symptoms whatsoever so am finding it very hard to get my head round and even beliueve it.

 

I am on my own and my 2 boys are going back to yo Uni in 3 weeks, no questions asked, they are going as they are not going to lose out because of me.  

 

Wondered if there are any other people in a similar boat who may live near to me in Sutton that would like to chat or become friends. 

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  • Hi Natbite

     

    So sorry to read of your diagnosis. I’m not close to you geographically unfortunately, but I have had cervical cancer twice in the last 18 months and have been through a fair amount of treatment. I’m happy to chat and help if I can in any way. The time after diagnosis and before treatment starts is a horrible waiting game we all have to go through but I hope you get good news from your scans and that there is no further spread. Please feel free to keep in touch if you’d like. x

  • Hi Minska 

     

    Thanky you for your reply and yes I would like to please.   I have had PET scan today and another MRI scan on Monday, the waiting and not knowing if it has speard to my kidneys lungs and liver is torture. 

    Can I ask how you have had it twice, did the treatment not work the first time around and how are you doing now?  I am scared about it all, I feel so healthy and normal yet I am not

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  • Hi Natbite

     

    I was first diagnosed in September 2018 with stage 2b so surgery was not an option. I had chemo and radiotherapy. Only managed 4 out of 5 sessions of chemotherapy because of my blood count, and I had 32 radiation treatments. I was scheduled for brachytherapy (internal radiation) but unfortunately had a pulmonary embolism the night before my admission for this and it couldn’t go ahead. 

     

    Following treatment, my 3 month MRI scan showed no evidence of disease (NED) so yes, it did work.

     

    Unfortunately at my check up 9 months after treatment my consultant spotted a tiny growth where my original tumour had been so although I had got the all clear, there must have been something too small for the 3 month scan to detect. I was really surprised as I was feeling well and had no symptoms. I then had a pet scan, and a further 2 mri scans and a biopsy under anaesthetic.  There was no spread anywhere outside my pelvis. The tumour was so small my consultant thought a radical hysterectomy would be possible but unfortunately when I was opened up, my radiation damage was too bad to proceed safely so I was stapled up and spent 9 weeks healing and recovering before I had a total pelvic exenteration-basically the removal of all pelvic organs. 

     

    I had the surgery in March this year and all of my cancer was removed. It’s a major operation, which has left me with a colostomy and urostomy amongst other things! but I have recovered really well with no setbacks, and my histology results confirmed the cancer is gone, with very clear margins so it was well worth it.  

     

    My case is pretty rare really so I didn’t quite follow the standard path. Usually treatment for cervical cancer is aggressive and very successful. I was just unlucky with the embolism stopping the brachytherapy. I feel absolutely fantastic now-no issues at all and I’ve got my life back. No pain, loads of energy and feeling much like my old self.

     

    If you are feeling healthy and normal at the minute that will stand you in good stead for the treatment you will have, because it will likely take it out of you.  I hope the petscan and next mri give the best possible results for you and you can get on with dealing with this. I was convinced my cancer would have spread, and these worries are natural..but it hadn’t. I did my best to keep a really positive mental attitude and I do believe this helped.  I know it’s a scary time, but your scans are happening quickly and your team will soon have a treatment plan in place for you. I’ll send you a friend request on the forum, which will appear in your notifications and if you accept it we will be able to message privately if you’d rather. 

  • Dear Minksa

    Hope you are safe and well

     

    your post was so useful and so encouraging.  My mum has recurrent endometrial cancer in the pelvic lymph nodes and para ortic lymph node

     

    She's had 2 rounds of chemo so far.  She's due 6 cycles... if I being honest I'm a bit worried about it being in the lymph nodes because I'm not sure how effective chemo is when attacking cancer in lymph nodes.   I'm thankful it hasn't spread any further than the lymph nodes

     

    Any light you can shed will be gratefully received 

     

    Hope you well and sending you lots of love ️ ♥️♥️♥️

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  • Dear Minksa

    Hope you are safe and well

     

    your post was so useful and so encouraging.  My mum has recurrent endometrial cancer in the pelvic lymph nodes and para ortic lymph node

     

    She's had 2 rounds of chemo so far.  She's due 6 cycles... if I being honest I'm a bit worried about it being in the lymph nodes because I'm not sure how effective chemo is when attacking cancer in lymph nodes.   I'm thankful it hasn't spread any further than the lymph nodes

     

    Any light you can shed will be gratefully received 

     

    Hope you well and sending you lots of love ️ ♥️♥️♥️

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