Hi

I am so sorry to hear this. I too have just beendiagnosed with triple negative breast cancer and have to start chemo in 2 weeks and then surgery. I have 3 children and am 44. For me, once my treatment planwas in place I started to be able to think more positively. It's a terrifying time but everybody is telling me how important it is to really try and not give in to the negative thoughts. I know that is hard, I only got my diagnosis last Thursday and spent the first few days crying, panicking and feeling completely oveverwhelmed. 

I have talked with my children, that has allowed me to feel more balanced and I am taking control over my diet, boostingmy immune system and cutting my super long hair. 

All inall, I think trying to take some control is making me feel like I am not a lab rat and giving me some focus other than the worst case scenarios. 

Wishing you all the very best xxx