Hi all

at 38 DX tnbc, 15cm tumour and all lymph nodes removed. Had chemo then radiotherapy. Developed lymphodema in affected side. 12 months later develop more lumps in primary breast. Had a full mastectomy. 6 months later I get diagnosed with bone mets and it's spread to my lymphatic system. I've also developed a cancerous wound on my mastectomy scar. I thought cancerous wounds mean it's an advanced stage. Feeling so lost at the moment and just before my 40th. I've got two small children and my poor husband literally has to do everything. It's so painful it wakes me at night. I cry every time my husband redresses the wound plus I have more lumps spreading across the skin to my other breast. Anyone been in this situation I need real hope. Seeing oncologist on Tuesday to find out if anything they can do. 
sorry for the long post