I'm not sure I'm in the right place but I got diagnosed on Tuesday with grade 3 breast cancer. I've been doing the wrong things and googling which has not helped but I'm one of those mad women who need to know everything.

i have had a bad experience getting this far. Lump found in Nov 19, told it was a cyst. It was. But wasn't told there was a 17 mm lesion under it. Cyst kept refilling and lump kept growing. It's now 30mm. Had biopsy of lymph nodes this week. CT today. Now moved my care to a different hospital with better support and credentials. I've learnt a whole new language in 3 days! My head is battered and I feel like I'm drowning in syrup one minute then not giving a **** the next. 

if you told me this was going to happen last week I'd have laughed at you.

I am not one for talking to others, I listen for a living! But I'm scared and have been stalking this site for support and knowledge so thought I'd just introduce myself and take the leap into cancer land. 
I hope I survive this place